Counterintuitiveness – Unhurried Conversations
Counterintuitiveness – Unhurried conversations
Counterintuitiveness makes life more interesting. It also briefly reveals gaps or lags in our understanding or mindsets.
Some weeks ago, I chanced upon a virtual session titled “Unhurried Conversations about Rule-breaking”, hosted by Johnnie Moore and Tim Pilbrow.
Often, virtual sessions are mostly unidirectional. And interactions either lack many questions, or have a subtle tug-of-war, with participants trying to get their message across. This was far from both.
The session started with an overview by the hosts, followed by participants heading to breakout rooms, equipped with some simple rules:
When someone is speaking, avoid interrupting.
When speaking, you can take your sweet time. And once done, hold up an object to convey the same, so someone else can then speak.
The lack of pressure to squeeze one’s point across, or blurt it out so as not to take up much time, was refreshing.
It felt like there was more than sufficient time for everyone to share multiple views, stories and opinions, which in themselves were extremely insightful. And the best bit, there was the respect, both when everyone spoke, and when everyone listened.
And everyone’s understanding of the topic seemed to evolve nicely in this supportive environment.
In all, very different from both high-pressure group discussion type environments, and the no-questions kind we are used to.
With a fixed timeline, interactions and meetings with these rules could perhaps be far more effective. Thanks to Johnnie and Tim!
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Great to hear you found it a refreshing approach!
Shrutin N Shetty
Thanks a lot, Tim!
Superb a must follow practice, to listen
Shrutin N Shetty
True that! =)